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WINTER
2004 Jim
Quillinan Michael Trainor
Trish Madigan
OP Michael Fallon
MSN Phil Riordan Mark Raper SJ Bob Irwin MSC
| Clergy sexual abuse: New Paradigms For Healing PHIL RIORDAN OUR GROWING AWARENESS of the extent of the sexual abuse of children and
adults in the Church and the crisis that this has precipitated has prompted
various responses from its institutions. They have ranged from the earlier
corrupt and unjust treatment of victims and their families to more recent
high profile meetings in Rome, the establishment of procedures for dealing
with complaints of abuse and, finally, various theological responses.
This crisis has underlined to all of us the contradictions that still
exist within the Church and its continuing capacity for evil, which has
its origins in the corruptibility of human nature and psychic unconsciousness.
Past responses to the problem of clergy sexual abuse have been worsened
by the complexities of Church organisation, hindering the development
of just and consistent responses to complaints of clergy sexual abuse.
The Towards Healing document (Australian Catholic Bishops Conference
and the Australian Conference of Leaders of Religious Institutes: 2000)
and the Professional Standards Resource Group established to implement
its principles and procedures for dealing with complaints of clergy sexual
abuse has been an effective but, ultimately, inadequate attempt to rectify
this situation. This essay is an attempt to provide a theological response
to the problem of clergy sexual abuse. In this article I have tried to analyse the issue from the perspective
of the adult and child victims of clergy sexual abuse, rather than from
the perspective of the Church or the priest perpetrator. In the course
of this analysis I have explored the value of some concepts from Korean
Minjung theology, ideas from the Christian Realist theology of Reinhold
Niebuhr, the liberative philosophical writings of Paolo Freire, the work
of Judith Herman with torture and trauma survivors, psychoanalytic theory
and the analytical ideas of C. G. Jung. I have relied on this approach
in the hope of gaining a deeper understanding of the issue rather than
confining myself to a particular theoretical model, but I am aware of
the methodological problems that this kind of approach can create. To
address these problems here would take the essay well beyond its main
purpose. But I do believe that an understanding of the dynamics of the
individual human psyche and observations of group psychic phenomena may
help us to develop a greater theological understanding of the whole clergy
sexual abuse tragedy. I have also discussed how this analysis may help
us rethink the whole issue with hope rather than despair. I then explore
how the clergy sexual abuse issue may inform traditional understandings
about the crucifixion and resurrection as the central mystery and defining
experience of Christian history. Overall, it is an attempt to explore
further possibilities for healing for victims and the Church that may
emerge out of this crisis. But first I would like to address some issues
of terminology. The Church can be understood on three levels: its theological or transcendental
meaning, its psychological function and its organisational structure.
Theologically the Church is the People of God. Psychologically the Church
is a unifying idea that draws the People of God together into a collective
and unitive whole. And organisationally the Church is a broad network
of autonomous and semi-autonomous organisations which, together with the
diocesan clergy, fall either within diocesan pastoral boundaries under
the canonical jurisdiction of the local bishop or directly under the canonical
and teaching authority of Rome. As the People of God, we derive our sense
of meaning and belonging from our psychological identification with the
idea of the Church, from the positive effects of our socialisation into
Church teaching and culture, from our participation in communal worship
and Church organisation, from our personal relationship with God and by
our public profession of faith in the Creed. In this essay I use the word
Church in each of these three ways. The dimension I am emphasing should
be clear from the context in which I am using it. I use the term psyche instead of mind as C.G. Jung used the term. It
reflects the dual aspects of the self: what is conscious and what is unconscious.
(Fordham: 1991, 15) What is conscious in the psyche refers to those things
in our world and about our motivations, our behaviour, our desires and
our wishes that we are aware of. What is unconscious in the psyche refers
to those motivations, desires, wishes, behaviours and psychic contents
that are present in the psyche and that motivate our actions but which
we are not aware of. There is some debate about whether what is unconscious
refers simply to psychic contents that lie outside the realm of self awareness
or whether what is unconscious is an identifiable structure located in
the psyche that we can call the unconscious. For the purposes of this
essay it is enough to understand that there are motivations, desires and
wishes in the human psyche that lie outside of conscious awareness, that
are active in our psychic lives despite being unconscious, that influence
our behaviour and that are given expression through the psychic life of
the individual and the group. Psychic unconsciousness refers to a lack of conscious awareness of what
is unconscious in ones psyche and behaviour and of its underlying
meaning. It is a lack of conscious awareness in the individual or the
group of what is unconscious in ones own psyche and behaviour, of
its meaning and of what exists outside ones psyche in the world.
It is a limited level of self awareness that is the product of the individuals
or the groups avoidance of the awareness of things within themselves
or in the world that they would rather not know about. Psychic unconsciousness,
as I have used the phrase in the first paragraph and as I use it in this
essay, is an undifferentiated individual and collective state of mind.
It is the result of socialisation and of what psychoanalytic theory calls
the psychological defence mechanisms, which the human mind employs
to avoid self awareness. (Hinshelwood: 1987, 65) Psychic unconsciousness
is also the product of what the psychoanalyst Erich Fromm called the pseudo
self. But far from being pathological, this state of mind is the
normal psychological state of the majority of society and the majority
in the Church and may provide a psychological explanation for the modern
social indifference to human suffering. Ideas about the dual nature of
the human psyche, the pseudo self, individual and collective psychic unconsciousness
and collective psychic phenomena are based on empirically verifiable observations
by psychoanalytic and analytic practitioners covering a period of 150
years. Lastly, I use the terms victim and survivor when speaking about
adults and children who have been sexually abused by members of the clergy.
A victim is the adult or child who is suffering the clergy sexual abuse
or who is trapped in the traumatic aftermath of the event/s. A survivor
is someone who seeks to relinquish the stigma of victimisation and has
chosen to embark upon the road to freedom, liberation and recovery. I
have found all these ideas to be useful in understanding the clergy sexual
abuse problem and the previously unjust responses of Church leaders to
complaints of sexual abuse. The Unconscious Church The more an alienated culture is uncovered, the more the oppressive
reality in which it originates is uncovered. (Freire: 1972, 15) The manner in which Church organisations and Church leaders conduct their
affairs should rightly give expression to the values of the gospel as
lived and preached by Jesus and the apostles. And yet the presence of
abusive environments within Church organisations, a reputation amongst
some Church leaders for having protected perpetrators and demonised victims
and, until more recently, the complete absence of any standard and just
procedures for dealing with complaints of abuse are inconsistent with
the spirit of the gospel. The behaviour of Church leaders who have been
complicit in the protection of perpetrators, in the concealment of this
problem and in the unjust treatment of victims has born uncanny similarities
to the behaviour and the psychology of the perpetrators of clergy sexual
abuse. By denying to themselves and to the People of God the true nature
of what they were really doing many Church leaders have often perpetrated
a form of institutional abuse, retraumatising people already wounded by
their experiences of clergy sexual abuse. The empirical observations of
analytic psychologists have shown that when aspects of the self remain
unconscious they tend to live a life of their own, to operate outside
the control of conscious decision-making processes and to become destructive.
Past responses by many Church leaders to complaints about clergy sexual
abuse have displayed a lack of psychic, spiritual and moral consciousness.
Victims have been abused by their perpetrators and have then been reabused
by Church leaders and their lawyers. The more recent controversy surrounding the former Governor-General illustrates
how attitudes and behaviours towards victims which, in the past, were
more often than not taken for granted as normal by the clergy will simply
not be tolerated by the wider community and by many within the Church.
We now have a greater understanding of the damaging effects of sexual
abuse on victims. We also understand the importance of accountability
as a mechanism that places checks on the indiscriminate and arbitrary
misuse of power. It was the role of the Old Testament prophet to bring
into conscious awareness the contradictions in Israels religious
life. Similarly, the Church in the modern world, in its admirable pursuit
of the gospel ideal, has been forced by victims and by the issue itself
to confront its own contradictions and to face the fact that the human
condition is something in which we all share, the clergy no less than
the laity that it serves. Church leaders and Church organisations that have treated victims of
clergy sexual abuse unjustly have sought to hide the truth of what they
have done both from themselves and from the wider community. Victims have
been denied both natural justice and the right to be heard in the spirit
of the gospel. Public truth-telling by victims has served the purpose
of uncovering alienated environments within Church organisations and culture
and the oppressive conditions that have created them by bringing into
the light what has been done in the dark and by bringing into public awareness
things of which the wider Church community has not been aware. It was
Sigmund Freud who first recognised that only those things that become
conscious become treatable, even if not curable. So, if it is at all possible
to discern the presence of God in atrocity, then this process of bringing
into the light what has been done in the dark can be seen as part of an
ongoing process of healing for victims, for the Church and for the wider
community. The circumstances that have created the sexual abuse problem and the
manner in which it has often been handled by Church leaders shows that
the People of God are also in need of healing from their unconscious participation
in dehumanising aspects of Church culture. Oppression in the Church expresses
itself through the negative effects of our socialisation into Church culture
and teaching. Socialisation into Church culture and teaching produces
a psychological identification with our collective Christian ideal. One
negative effect of socialisation into any ideology is the unconscious
suppression of aspects of the self that are inconsistent with the ideology.
Another consequence is our repression of our conscious awareness of our
personal sufferings in order to identify ourselves with the ideal. The
emancipatory language of the prophetic tradition continued by Jesus in
His teachings can be subverted by the legitimate socialising role played
by Church faith and moral teaching. In such circumstances meaning
is saved, but the self is sacrificed. (Tillich: 1962, 56) Oppression
also expresses itself through teachings and structures that are alienated
from what is conscious and humanising in Church culture. Oppressive teachings
and structures have created the conditions in which abuse has been able
to occur. Healing for the People of God has involved a painful confrontation with
the limitations of the clergy, with their capacity for self-deception
and with their misplaced belief in their immunity from corruption merely
by virtue of the office that they hold. Lasting healing for the Church
will require further theological, psychological and organisational transformation,
changes which have the potential to lead it towards a more enlightened
understanding of how the limitations of the human condition impinge upon
the clergys capacity to discharge its pastoral responsibilities.
But to what extent it will willingly participate in this process of transformation
remains to be seen. Can Church leaders willingly integrate into the contemporary
history of the Church both the hidden knowledge of some peoples
wrongful actions and the testimony of victims or will they develop their
own versions of the problem, minimising the culpability of the guilty
and pitying perpetrators as has happened in the past? And are they prepared
to examine the oppressive conditions created by Church teachings and organisation
or will the current problem of sexual abuse lead them to adopt a more
literalist and dogmatic position? Certainly, attempts by some in the Church
to blame gay clergy as the sole source of the problem of clergy sexual
abuse may be a response more in keeping with Church moral teaching than
with reality. Survivors of clergy sexual abuse have played a role in confronting the
People of God with the existence of these oppressive conditions. But this
has come at a cost for some. Victims of clergy sexual abuse have not encountered
hostile responses from Church leaders and their lawyers for having been
abused but for having made complaints and for having demanded justice.
So it has been appropriate in the present circumstances to raise questions
about those aspects of Church practice, teaching and organisation that
have dehumanised victims and which, by their very existence, have also
dehumanised the entire People of God. Survivors of clergy sexual abuse
continue to play a role in trying to free the People of God from their
unconscious participation in a culture that has allowed sex offenders
to thrive. Jungs contention was that the survival of civilization
depends upon the individuals awareness of both the conscious and
unconscious aspects of the human psyche. Similarly, the future wellbeing
of the Church and its future direction may depend more upon the consciousness
and humanity of its leaders than on any public profession of faith based
upon moral or doctrinal certainties. Han : The Theology of Sexual Abuse The effect of sexual abuse on the mind of a child is like a modern
city being flattened by a tidal wave. (Therapeutic discourse) Clergy sexual abuse is emptiness and meaninglessness, for it destroys
the divine life in the psychic life of its victims. A theological understanding
of clergy sexual abuse finds some of its antecedents in liberation theology,
which originally grew out of victims experiences of oppression,
violence and terror. Feminist theology has already informed our understanding
of this issue through its engagement in social and theological discourses
on victimisation and liberation. A theology that has spoken from and of
womens experiences of disempowerment, subjugation and humiliation
has contributed to our understanding of clergy sexual abuse. But, in my
view, it is Korean Minjung theology that has the potential to shed most
light on the full impact of clergy sexual abuse on the psychological and
emotional lives of its victims and its continuing effects throughout their
lives. For at the heart of any pastoral theology of clergy sexual abuse
is, I believe, the theology of the inner life of its victims. Minjung theology (½ÅÇйÎÁß)
is a theology of the oppressed that grew out of the political circumstances
of Korean economic development in the 1970s and the dehumanising
social conditions that it created. Some Minjung theologians have turned
to the indigenous Korean shamanic religion of Han in an attempt
to understand the inner experience of intense personal suffering of the
oppressed and its potential for actuating profound inner spiritual and
psychic transformation. The victims han is their entire
inner accumulation of layer upon layer of unresolved bitterness, resentment
and anger at repeated injustices and unjustifiable suffering. (Suh: 1981,
27) For han is the primal religious experience of total
persons who are forced to suffer severely in history. (Hyun: 1985,
357) The concept of han, therefore, may provide a meaningful
conceptual framework within which to express the complex psychological,
social and spiritual impact of clergy sexual abuse on victims and the
long and often arduous pathways out of abusive conditions towards freedom,
liberation and recovery. Han is the victims inner suffering, which can be so
intense that it can become crystallized in the guts and bowels.
(Hyun: 1985, 357) The traumatic effects of abuse can be so severe that
they manifest themselves in the oppressed as physical and psychological
symptoms. Han also plays a role in the collective social biography
of the Korean people. Han is not only experienced as solitary
suffering. Adult and child victims of clergy sexual abuse suffer individually,
but they also share in a form of collective suffering. By bearing witness
to their common experience those victims of clergy sexual abuse who engage
in public truth-telling have brought into conscious awareness the presence
of their own suffering and the vicarious collective unconscious suffering
of the People of God. This collective unconscious suffering of the Church
is something that the socialising effects of Church faith and moral teaching,
Church culture and the socialising effects of our wider society do not
normally allow us to be aware of. For the average person usually
is not aware of non-being and anxiety in the depth of his personality.
(Tillich: 1962, 73) The han of victims of clergy sexual abuse
is the inner suffering that is caused by the cumulative effects on the
psyche of this process of socialisation and the internalisation of the
perpetrators cruelty. Therefore, we might speak legitimately of
the han of victims of clergy sexual abuse, notwithstanding
its uniquely Korean origins and contemporary expressions. In certain respects every act of human evil is a spiritual atrocity.
But the sexual abuse of adults and children by members of the clergy is
uniquely a spiritual atrocity. It destroys the victims sense of
their own goodness and of Gods benevolence, while the indifference
of the bystander destroys the victims faith in the goodness of his
or her fellow human beings. The victims sense of emotional connection
with themselves, with God and with others is destroyed. In the abusive
environment the victims personality is shaped by the death-affirming
climate of oppression. (Freire: 1970, 55) But therapeutic work with
victims has shown that recovery from clergy sexual abuse is possible.
Through the therapeutic process the victim eventually comes to reject
the perpetrators lie. The lie is the story made up of the perpetrators
deceptions about himself, about his motivations for abusing and about
his victims. It also includes the self-justifications of those who have
colluded with the abuser. Together with a trained, compassionate and empathic
listener victims slowly but gradually gain the courage to articulate their
own truths. By descending into the hellish psychic world of traumatic
memory the survivor ultimately emerges with their own story, one that
integrates their inner experiences of humiliation, violation, existential
terror and loss of physiological control with the strength, courage and
defiance that enabled them to survive in the face of overwhelming evil.
(Herman: 2001, 176) This survivor narrative is never complete, but it recognises
the horror and meaninglessness in the abuse for what they were, as inevitable
consequences of the perpetrators actions rather than as some kind
of proof of the victims alleged moral and psychological inadequacies,
as many Church leaders have been inclined to believe. The horror, the
meaningless inner suffering, the psychic annihilation of the self and
the loss of ones former life are redeemed through a process of remembrance
and mourning. (Herman: 2001, 175) Through this process of grieving the
stigmatised traumatic self is relinquished and a new self is created.
The victims han and rage is thus liberated from
its masochistic exercise to be a great and fervent clamour for Gods
justice. (Suh: 1981) By engaging in this process of personal liberation
survivors honour their losses and bear witness to every victims
truth. These tasks form part of their personal struggle towards life-affirming
humanisation. (Freire: 1970, 55) But recovery from the devastating
psychological consequences of clergy sexual abuse cannot be achieved alone,
nor is it something bestowed upon victims from above. Central to this
struggle is a process of psychic integration, which eventually leads the
survivor to reengagement with the world. Loss is redeemed and the masochistic
exercise of an internalised evil, cruel and suffering self is transmuted
into a new self with a restored capacity for love, joy, warmth, creativity
and greater inner freedom. The Crucifixion and the Annihilation of the Self: Towards A New Hermeneutic
of the Cross I was bruised and battered and I couldnt tell what I felt, I was unrecognisable to myself. (Springsteen: 1993) The narrative quality of the therapeutic process suggests that meaning is something that arises out of history rather than something imposed upon it. This raises questions about how this knowledge can be reconciled with Church claims to an absolute and immutable meaning to certain historical events. Through a painful process of psychic transformation, survivors of clergy sexual abuse begin to discover their own meaning to surviving and overcoming adversity. The meaning survivors find in overcoming their own personal tragedies can include spiritual meanings. Attempts by Paul and the early Church to make sense of the death and resurrection of Jesus were, in this sense, the first Christian survivor narratives. Pauls hermeneutic of the cross is perhaps the best example of these. A coherent narrative of the cross gradually emerged out of living and preaching the gospel while remembering and mourning the events of the past. A profound transcendental meaning emerged for Paul and the early Church out of the atrocity of the crucifixion through the resurrection narratives. However, when traditional hermeneutics of the cross are analysed from the perspective of the victims inner experience of psychological annihilationthe devastating psychological impact of violence upon the psychewhich is a timeless experience and one not confined to any particular historical period, we can see that they failed to fully integrate Jesus inner existential experience of psychological devastation into the story of the crucifixion and the resurrection. Violence damages the mind and oppressive conditions influence the otherwise normal development of the psyche. This knowledge is now available to us with the benefit of 150 years of study into the effects of violence on the mind. The absence of any real understanding of the existential reality of Jesus inner experience of psychic annihilation in traditional interpretations of the cross has left our historical and theological understanding of the inner dimension of Jesus death and resurrection incomplete. Consequently, the inner existential experience of psychological annihilation of all victims of violence has remained largely unconscious throughout the history of Christian civilisation. This has formed the historical and theological background to what has become the modern history of the Churchs invalidation of the personal experience of its own victims. Hence, victims of clergy sexual abuse are also the victims of history. Church teaching is that Jesus was like us in all things except sin and
He suffered as we do. But traditional hermeneutics of the cross as we
find them in Pauls writings and throughout later history have failed
to fully integrate this truth. Prayerful reflection upon the life and
death of Jesus without this psychological perspective inevitably led to
the development of an idealised view of the cross, which tended to romanticise
Jesus sufferings and stress their transcendental meaning at the
expense of insights into Jesus existential experience of psychic
devastation. By looking upon the crucifixion in this way, Jesus
inner existential experience of psychological annihilation has not been
integrated into traditional hermeneutics of the cross. Furthermore, traditional
hermeneutics of the cross have unconsciously preserved earlier Deuteronomic
themes found in the Old Testament that violence is purposeful and that
Gods will is imposed upon history. The clergy sexual abuse crisis and the willingness of survivors to tell
their stories has given us a greater understanding of the human suffering
that is caused when atrocities of any kind are perpetrated against innocent
people and most especially against children. Greater insight into the
inner sufferings of all victims of violence and of clergy sexual abuse,
in particular, makes us more fully human when it leads to a greater capacity
to respond compassionately to people who are genuinely suffering. Understanding
the devastating psychological impact of clergy sexual abuse on the victims
psyche also informs critical reflections on traditional hermeneutics of
the cross. Such reflections reveal the unconscious tendency in Church
teaching to idealise violence, although in ways that are different from
that tendency found in human civilisation generally. This insight creates
the possibility for the development of a new hermeneutic of the cross
that integrates our understanding of Jesus intense inner existential
psychic sufferings into traditionally transcendental interpretations of
the crucifixion and resurrection. A more integrated hermeneutic of the
cross would reflect a deeper and more nuanced understanding of the crucifixion
and resurrection, one that is not contrary to human experience.
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